The Ultimate Guide to Giving a Mind Blowing Prostate Play Handjob
If you want to give him the most intense toe curling orgasm of his life you need to learn how to combine prostate play with a skillful filthy handjob. This is not just stroking his cock until he finishes. This is about exploring the deepest source of male pleasure making him squirm moan and beg while you milk his prostate and work his cock in perfect rhythm.
Many men have never experienced this level of pleasure. Some are nervous to try it. Some might be embarrassed to ask. If you are the partner who can guide him through it confidently enthusiastically and with absolute filth he will remember it forever. He might even become addicted to the way you touch him.
This is your complete explicit no limits guide to prostate play handjobs how to talk about it get him comfortable prep him lube him up stimulate him inside combine it with expert stroking talk dirty watch him lose his mind and make him shoot the hardest load of his life.
This is not something you rush. The key is building anticipation trust and relaxation before blowing his mind with direct overwhelming stimulation.
Let’s get into it.
Talking About It First
Prostate play is intimate. Anal play in general can be sensitive to discuss. Some guys are eager but shy. Others are worried it might make them feel vulnerable. The first step is to normalize it and get enthusiastic.
Tell him directly how hot you think it is to play with his prostate. Say you want to make him cum so hard he cannot handle it. Tell him you love the idea of making him moan and squirm for you. Make it about how much you want to give him that pleasure.
Try lines like
"I want to see you lose control while I milk your prostate"
"I want to make you cum so hard you are shaking"
"I want to feel your cock throb in my hand while I finger you"
"Trust me baby I am going to make you feel things you have never felt before"
Your confidence and enthusiasm are essential. If you act awkward or embarrassed he will be too. If you act excited he will feed off your energy and get excited himself.
Ask him openly if he has tried it before. If he is nervous reassure him you will go slow. Make sure he knows it is okay to tell you to stop at any time. Consent and trust are the foundation for really dirty fun.
Setting the Scene
Prostate play works best when he is relaxed. Set the mood to help him let go.
You can do it in bed on the couch even in the shower if you want to be creative. Have towels handy. Make sure you have lots of lube. Lots. You can never use too much.
Dim the lights if you want. Play music. Make it sexy. Or keep it bright and raw if you want him to watch everything you are doing.
Encourage him to shower beforehand if he is worried about cleanliness. That alone can help him feel more comfortable.
Getting Him Comfortable
The most important thing before you even touch his ass is to get him turned on. A prostate handjob is better when he is already half crazy with desire.
Start by kissing him deeply. Make out like you cannot get enough. Let him feel how hungry you are. Tell him what you want to do to him. Whisper it in his ear. Bite his lip. Make him moan before you even touch his cock.
Move down to his neck chest nipples. Lick suck bite gently. Play with his nipples if he likes that. Men often have sensitive nipples that get overlooked. Pinching or licking them while you stroke his cock can make him gasp.
Kiss your way down his body. Let your tongue drag across his skin. Tease his hips thighs. Make sure you are building anticipation not rushing.
Grab his cock and start stroking slowly. Use lube or spit to make it slick. Grip him firmly then loosen up vary the rhythm. Watch his face. Listen to his breath. Talk to him. Tell him how hard he is for you. How much you love feeling his cock in your hand.
Talking Dirty to Turn Him On
Dirty talk is your best friend here. The more verbal you are the more you will build tension.
Try things like
"You want me to stroke your big cock while I finger your tight little hole"
"I am going to milk your prostate until you cum so hard you cannot breathe"
"Look at you so desperate for me to fuck you with my fingers"
"I want you to moan for me while I play with your ass"
"Tell me how good it feels when I touch you there"
Make it personal. Say his name. Use filthy language if you both like it. Or keep it softer and more sensual if that is the vibe.
Preparing for Anal Play
Anal play demands patience and care. Do not just shove a finger in. That will ruin the mood and make him tense up.
First tease him externally. Spread lube on your finger generously. Even better put lube on him directly. Rub it around his hole. Make slow circles. Press gently without trying to enter yet.
Tell him how hot he looks like this. Watch him squirm while you tease the entrance. You can even lick his hole if you want to rim him. Use your tongue to circle and press making him gasp. Rimming is incredibly intimate and filthy. If you want to go all in nothing makes a man relax like feeling your warm wet tongue on his hole.
If you are using just your fingers remember to trim your nails and wash your hands. Hygiene matters here.
Inserting the First Finger
Once he is moaning and relaxed slowly press the tip of your lubed finger inside. Do not jam it in. Let his body open for you. Go slowly steadily.
Tell him to breathe. Talk to him the whole time. Tell him how good he is doing. Praise him for being so open for you.
Once your finger is in stop and let him adjust. Wiggle gently. Curl your finger slightly to massage the front wall of his rectum. That is where the prostate is.
You are feeling for a small firm bump about one to two inches in. When you find it rub it gently. Circle it. Tap it lightly. Watch his reaction.
Combining Prostate Play with Stroking
Now you are ready to drive him crazy. With your other hand grab his cock and start stroking in rhythm with your finger.
The magic of a prostate handjob is syncing internal and external stimulation. As you rub or press his prostate stroke his shaft slowly at first. Build up.
Try different techniques
Slow deep strokes with steady prostate pressure
Fast jerking while tapping his prostate
Milking motions with your finger while twisting your wrist around his cock
Edging him by slowing down right as he is about to cum
Listen to his moans. Watch how his hips move. Adjust based on what makes him whimper or beg.
Adding More Fingers
If he is comfortable and really getting into it you can add a second finger. More fingers can give a fuller feeling and more prostate stimulation.
Again go slow. Add more lube. Let him tell you if it is too much.
Spread your fingers slightly inside to stretch him open gently. That alone can be a huge turn on for submissive men who love feeling filled.
Curl both fingers to massage the prostate even more firmly. Alternate between pressing and circling. Combine that with stroking his cock harder and faster.
Advanced Techniques and Toys
If you really want to take it to the next level you can use toys.
Anal plugs can warm him up and make him feel deliciously stretched while you jerk him off. Vibrating plugs or prostate massagers add hands free stimulation.
While the plug or toy presses on his prostate you can focus completely on stroking his cock. The vibrations inside him will make every stroke feel ten times better.
Try
Starting with a small plug while you tease his cock
Switching to a larger plug as he gets more turned on
Using a prostate vibrator while you milk his shaft
Even rimming him while he wears the toy
Just make sure to use lots of lube and keep everything clean.
Dirty Talk Throughout
Never stop talking. Men love hearing how filthy you are.
"Look at you taking my fingers so well"
"I love feeling your tight little hole clench around me"
"I am going to make you cum so hard you see stars"
"Beg me to finger your ass while I jerk you off"
"Tell me how much you love it when I play with your prostate"
Encourage him to talk back. Ask him how it feels. Tell him to moan for you. Get him to tell you he loves it.
Prostate Orgasms and Hands Free Cum
Some men can cum from prostate stimulation alone. Even if they do not stimulating the prostate while stroking him can make his orgasm much more intense.
Watch for signs he is getting close. His breathing will get ragged. He might clench around your fingers. His cock will throb in your hand.
You can tease him edging him by slowing down. Make him beg. Or push him right over the edge.
As he cums keep the pressure on his prostate steady. Stroke his cock firmly. Watch his face. He might moan louder than you have ever heard. He might buck his hips. Some men shoot bigger thicker loads from prostate stimulation.
Tell him how hot he looks. Praise him for cumming so hard. Let him see your messy fingers and his dripping cock. It is intensely intimate and filthy.
Aftercare
Do not forget to help him come down. Prostate orgasms can be overwhelming.
Clean him up gently. Kiss him. Tell him how good he was for you. Let him know how much you loved doing it.
If he feels vulnerable reassure him. Tell him how sexy it was watching him let go.
A prostate play handjob is about more than just making him cum. It is about trust exploration and giving him permission to feel pleasure in a way most men never experience.
Be patient. Be filthy. Be enthusiastic. Talk to him. Watch his body. Adjust to what he loves. Do not rush it. Make it an experience he cannot stop thinking about.
If you are willing to go all in with dirty talk eager fingers and the confidence to guide him through it you can give him the hardest orgasm of his life.
He will never forget it and he will want you to do it again and again.
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